I believe I have mention this before,
about my baby sister's train wreck of a marriage to a PFC Tom
McCreary. And in truth this post is mainly for them, which I know
I'll get some ugly emails and messages but, hey, the truth
hurts, doesn't it. Now they'll see what they look like when they act
like high schoolers instead of adults.
Within the year he cheated on her with an
ex. But his family, who they were living with
because she was the one working to support them while he collected a
$400 check a month for being a weekend warrior, treated her as if she was the
one that cheated.
She got over it and worked things out
while doing her best to ignore his pathetic family, all because she
loved him. Before he left for his deployment, he started sending the
ex money, while Steph was recovering from a medical conditon and
couldn't work. Then told her that he was done, but then changed his
mind and got his act together enough to finish the paper work so that
the military saw her as his wife. (Which he never turned in instead
Steph did later.) But before his plane took off his mother did this
whole pathetic bit about how Steph would spend every last dime of his
pay check and demanded that he take his debit card with him and not
add Steph to his back account, instead add her. (She must not know
that it's her son's responsibility to support his wife.)
Here's the part most don't know. At
this point she was living with me in N.C. and he is listed at Active
Duty, but he wasn't supporting her, which the military really looks
down on those that don't support their family. He is receiving an
Active Duty pay check and BAH (Basic Allowance for Housing), and she
was looking for a job to support herself and and trying to save the
money to file for divorce. Now it gets a little fuzzy whether they
were together or not, since it changed every five minutes. But she
was fighting with him and his SGT to setup an allotment to support
her, and she wasn't asking for much, but he decided to give her
enough to show off that he was supporting her. Now Army regulations
say that a soldier must support their spouse and family unless the
spouse makes more then they do or the marriage ends.
By the time Tom returned home on R&R
Steph had received two payments, and they had decided to stick it out
and make things work. Now this whole time his family has been making
her life a living hell and starting fights with my mother and other
sisters, and Steph was back in T.X. living with my mother. Tom's
first day back he picked her up and took her to a hotel, then dropped
her back off at my mother's house the next, to not be heard from for days. When
she did finally hear from him, he was at the ex's and told her that he
had filed the divorce papers and she would be receiving them to sign
soon and that he stopped the allotment. She couldn't wait to sign
them, she was tired of his crap and didn't deserve to be treated that
way any longer.
A few weeks of her waiting to sign the
papers his family decided that the divorce wasn't enough and that
they wanted more. His family doesn't live far from my mother, they
actually live up the road from them. So one day when Steph was coming
home with my PREGANENT sister, Sam, one of them decided to try and
run them off the road. The cops were not called. A few
days later, Sam was in a car accident, no one was hurt, when her
tires came off the car. Sometime during the night SOMEONE had removed
and loosen the bolts on her tires. Since there is no evidence to
point fingers at anyone the cops were not called again. But come on,
it's not that hard to put two and two together. It wasn't enough for
them to get what they wanted or to torture Steph, they had to go and
endanger both her and Sam's life along with a innocent unborn child.
Now, a few days ago Steph received a
call from Tom, who admitted that he never filed the divorce papers.
Mind you that he has not supported Steph for a couple of months now
with the claim they were getting a divorce, and his SGT allowed him
to stop the allotment, instead of following regulations. If you don't
know the regulation or understand it then
read this and
this.
Now after the little car accident case
his family realized it was time to grow up, or so we thought. But apparently they have grown bored with torturing and stealing from
their own family (from what the rumors say). And really my family
should be flattered that we can hold their attention without doing
anything.
On Thursday Steph received a message
from Tom's mother, Lisa, and these are her words exactly as my sister
received them: “Stephanie I tell u one thing u tell ur mom anytime
she wants to stomp my ass I am ready because I read ur blog so tell
unless she can back her shit up don't run her fucking mouth about
me.” And I am sorry for the language, but that shows how this woman
acts. Now as far as her comment about my mother's blog, I have to
laugh at the woman. My mother's blog is not linked to her Twitter or
Facebook and someone would either have to get the address from
her or actually Google my mother's name to find the blog. To have to
actually go and Google my mother's name to find her blog and then go
through years of post to find one that even mentions her son or the
name “Lisa” is really pathetic. On top of that my mother never
mentions anyone's full name and her post about Tom are true, and are
way nicer then mine, I read my mother's blog and not once does she
mention anything about his mother or that she wants to kick her ass.
The posts that mention Lisa are about my uncle's ex, so to take a post
that just mentions the name “Lisa” and turn it into something
it's not is just really sad.
Once again this post is for the
McCreary family, and I have to apologize to my loyal readers, not his family, that it had to come to this, but
sometimes things have to be said in order to feel better and ignore the idiots.
And to the McCreary family, it really is
flattering that you will pay this much attention to my family that
you can just ignore your own. But it's pathetic that you have to
stoop this low and endanger an innocent unborn child. Or that you
still have yet to find something new to do other then make yourself
look like the worst people on the plantet. Now if you will please grow
up you might actually find the time to fix that spelling of yours or
help your adult and married children create their own life and move
out. And we will go back to being the bigger ones and ignore your pathetic attempts to flatter us. Oh, one more thing, I hope you have
a wonderful day because I will.
